Rapport isn’t buttering people like toast
Forget about awkward small talk and forced smiles. Building rapport at work isn’t about being the office social butterfly; it’s about becoming a powerhouse of connections and contributions. Enter the broker of capability: the ultimate network ninja who uses their smarts and resources to solve problems and make everyone look like rockstars.
But wait, what the heck is a “broker of capability”? Simply put, it’s someone who knows how to leverage their network, knowledge, and resources to provide solutions and value to others. It’s like being a human Swiss Army knife, equipped with the right tools to address any professional challenge that comes your way.
Do you know those awkward forced smiles people put on?
Here’s the truth many professionals miss…
Sharing the Pie of potential almost always leaves you with a bigger slice.
So, how do you transform from cubicle dweller to Capability broker?
1. Map Your Network: From Maze to Mastermind
Think of your network as a hidden treasure map, teeming with untapped resources. But unlike Indiana Jones, you don’t need a dusty parchment. Start by creating a mental map of your professional contacts.
Action Steps:
- List your colleagues: Include their strengths, areas of expertise, and even quirks (the data whiz who loves baking, the sales guru who speaks fluent german).
- Expand your horizons: Connect with people outside your immediate circle at industry events, online forums, or volunteer projects. Diversity is your friend!
- Keep it organized: Use a simple tool like a spreadsheet or mind map to track your connections and their unique offerings.
Example: Remember, that junior designer who struggles with presentations? You know that seasoned marketing pro who’s a whiz with visuals. Connect them!
By facilitating this collaboration, you’ve become the bridge between potential and progress, strengthening your rapport with both Emily and Sarah.
2. Knowledge is Power, Sharing is Superpower
Don’t hoard your knowledge like a dragon with its gold. Share your insights, best practices, and industry knowledge. You’d be surprised how a quick tip or a relevant article can earn you major points (and maybe even a promotion).
Action Steps:
- Become a content curator: Share articles, podcasts, or online courses that might benefit your colleagues. Don’t just send links; add your own insights and recommendations.
- Host informal knowledge-sharing sessions: Organize lunch-and-learns or coffee chats where you can share your expertise on a specific topic.
- Be the resident “answer person”: Offer to help colleagues find resources or information they need. Knowledge is power, and sharing it makes you even more powerful.
Example: You’re a social media guru, but that is not your main job, and you know the latest trends that could skyrocket your company’s campaign. Don’t just keep it to yourself! Organize a workshop, share your knowledge with the person who’s responsible for this, and watch your colleagues’ engagement (and your rapport) soar.
3. Resourceful Robin Hood: Sharing the Spoils
Remember that time you found the perfect person to help with project management? Or that very nice doctor or tailor? Or the hidden story teller in accounting that everyone needs to speak to? Don’t keep those people to yourself! Share your resources with your colleagues and clients. You’ll be the hero who saves the day (and their sanity).
Action Steps:
- Create a resource library: Compile a list of your favourite people, their tools, books, and websites. In conversations, Make it easily accessible to your colleagues.
- Recommend solutions, not just problems: If you hear someone struggling with a task, don’t just offer sympathy. Suggest a relevant tool, app, or even a specific person who might be able to help.
- Become the “go-to person” for specific resources: Are you the data visualization whiz? The master of online scheduling tools? Leverage your expertise and become the trusted resource for others seeking solutions in your domain.
Example: You know the marketing team is swamped with content creation. You have access to a freelance writing platform that can connect them with talented writers. By bridging this gap, you’ve not only helped your colleagues, but also established yourself as a reliable resource, boosting your rapport
Remember, building rapport is not a one-time trick; it’s a continuous dance of connection and contribution. Here are some moves to keep your rapport game on point:
Be The Long-Term Tango Partner:
Ditch the “fake it till you make it” mentality. Building rapport takes time and effort. Be consistent, reliable, and focus on delivering value, not just making a good first impression.
Be The Elastic Communicator:
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to rapport. Adapt your communication style and behaviour to each person you interact with. Some folks love a good joke, while others prefer a more serious tone. Read the room and adjust your moves.
Forget sweet-talking, embrace bridge-building. Rapport isn’t buttering toast, it’s forging connections that withstand storms. Fake smiles crumble under pressure, but genuine understanding and shared goals create sturdy bridges to shared success. Ditch the manipulation, invest in reciprocity. Be the connector, the spark, the network where everyone wins.
Conclusion
Becoming a broker of capabilities is not just a skill or a technique. It is a mindset and a lifestyle. It is about going beyond traditional networking or assistance and actively seeking to fulfil the objectives and needs of others. It is about leveraging your network, knowledge, and resources to provide solutions and value to others. It is about creating genuine connections and driving mutual success.
By becoming a broker of capabilities, you can build rapport at work more effectively and efficiently. You can enjoy the benefits of having meaningful and valuable relationships with your colleagues, managers, clients, and stakeholders. You can achieve your goals and help others achieve theirs. You can become a leader and a catalyst for change in your workplace.
We hope this article has inspired you to become a broker of capabilities and build rapport at work. If you want to learn more about our facilitation skills training programs, please contact us today. We would love to help you develop your skills and enhance your rapport at work.
Remember, rapport isn’t just about you, it’s a two-way street paved with trust and respect. So, shed the butter and build bridges. Unleash the power of genuine connection, and watch your network carry you both to greater heights.
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